Transformational reflections and strategies to help keep you on-purpose®

Are You Caught in the Work Trap?

What are you doing with your weekends? Three things promoted me to write this article. First, the realisation that I need to get my working life into perspective and to practice what I preach! Second, an article I recently read by Travis Bradberry on ‘How successful people work less and get more done’. Thirdly, a few weeks ago I had a complete weekend off - went boating, caught some fish, walked and talked with my wife Angela and our chocolate brown labrador – Poppy, (yes,…

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Being a Top Performer Part 3 – Where Mindset and Actions Align & Mastery and Mojo Meet

In my previous two posts on being a TOP (The On-Purpose) Performer I talked about the difference between having a Think Inc! / ME Inc! Mindset (Thinking Incorporated) and a Stink Inc!/ ME Stink! (Stinking Thinking) mindset. TOP Performers have a Think Inc! mindset and are also motivated by the satisfaction that comes from being “On-Purpose” – they understand how they fulfil the needs of others and they find meaning in what they do.  They take their job to the next level by thinking like…

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Being a TOP Performer Part 2 – The Characteristics of People with a Me Inc! Mindset

In the previous blog in this series, I defined the difference between a Me Inc! or Me Stink! Mindset. As an employer, business owner, employee or team member you will usually demonstrate either one of these in the way you consistently serve your customers and clients. With a Me Stink! Mindset you react below the line nearly always blaming rather than taking responsibility for your thinking, feelings attitudes and behaviours. By contrast, when you respond to your environment with a Me Inc! Mindset, you proactively…

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Being a TOP Performer Part 1 – Me Inc! or Me Stink!

I have participated in a number of significant business forums recently.  These have included discussions on why customer service in our business community is below par, why business owners are reluctant to engage in training, mentoring and support and why employers and employees don’t seem to take responsibility for their future success. Now I know this does not apply to you because if it did, you would not be reading this. Whether you are a business owner, manager, team leader or team member your performance…

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Putting ‘Magic’ back into Marriage (2)

  Building Belonging Much of the above will also foster a sense of belonging – the other variable essential for positive alignment in a relationship.  While some wisdom literature would encourage us to ‘detach’ and not be dependent in any way on others for our happiness, humans have a “conditioned” basic social need of being loved, accepted and valued for who they are.  As in the corporate world where team work and acceptance are essential for a positive work place culture and staff morale, so too do…

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